Really Delores?!?! That's crazy, I thought they were supposed to let military families go through?!
I know some airports are more strict than others.. LAX only let Kadie and I go through. (this was long before Molly). We had parents with us, and they weren't allowed through, but because Kadie and I were his dependents (and I could show military ID), we got to go through with him. (This was back in May of 06).
Otherwise, we've dealt with Lindberg Field down here, and have never had an issue with getting to the gate with or for him.