Some advice to ponder on.
Working for an employer as a civilian or military will require you to commit your time regardless of variety. Most of the time you will be working on the same thing over and over. It is not about variety, it is about what brings food on the table.
Finding your partner will always have its time, the person will just appear out of nowhere. Remember though that it is also a life long commitment just like a job.
I suggest decide your career first, work your way up, I am 90% sure you will meet your partner along the way, not unless you are very picky. Establish yourself first then get married on the right time. It will work much easier. Trust me I have been in this situation and I wish I could have changed my past decisions.
Good luck!
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