[Dazel]

Hey y'all so I know I have to cut my hair.. but can I have conditioner? Regular? Leave in!!? I have thickkkk hair.. It's got a natural wave to it and will be unmanageable without conditioner so if I can't have it should I cut it shorter than a bob? It's below my bra now (mid-back). Also bobby pins are okay but hair ties aren't allowed correct? Also can we take birth control straight through to avoid a period and what happens if we get bad cramps are we allowed to take something or just suck it up and move? thanks!