Hi, I'm new here

so bare with me. I'm a female trying to go active in the administrative field. I've already passed my asvab/security clearance and was ready to go off to MEPS. Unfortunately I recently got into a car accident & have to seek physical therapy so that's delaying my entrance. Any serious answers will gladly be appreciated!!! Cutting to the point my questions are:
Will the navy disqualify me if I used to take depression pills? (long story mom used to think I slept to much after coming to America)
Will they let me do the "girl push-ups" ? (I've heard from a reserve they will)
My crunches/1.5 are all within standard but can't do a regular push-up to save my life... what can I do to build that up?
Car accident wasn't my fault, will going to physical therapy mess me up by going in?
is MEPS as strict as my recruiter makes it seem?